I've been with my wife for 25 years. She's so awesome that when I tell people on the interweb about her they don't believe it. You may not believe it either, and that's okay, fuck you then. I'll list her positives first.
What could possibly be wrong? She is a terrible housekeeper. I mean bad. Just awful. I won't go into specifics but I worry that if the police ever have to come into our house they'll report us to the state. I try to keep up but she makes messes faster than I can clean it up. She washes laundry like she should but instead of folding them and putting them away she throws them into a big pile and we have to go through it to find our clothes. The kids call it laundry mountain. It's about 8 feet tall. The toilets are disgusting and often smell like outhouses. Dishes pile up in the sink before washing. She throws groceries into the pantry instead of putting them on the shelves. Clean dishes are in the dishwasher, not put away. She makes piles of disorganized crap all over the house. She's a bit of a hoarder. She throws trash at the trash can but often not in it. It's terrible. Her parents came for a surprise visit and yelled at both of us about it but I yelled back and said they were the ones who taught her to be like this. And of course I've talked to her about it. She says she can't help it. I dunno.