When it comes to attraction, personally, personality and compatibility matter so much more to me than physical appearance or career aspirations. I am sure there are plenty of women who feel the same way. I am much more likely to feel attracted to a guy who makes me smile and laugh, who genuinely seems interested in what I have to say, and who has interesting things to talk about—in short someone with whom I share chemistry. I can’t speak for what motivates a woman to actually date a guy. It’s been a long time since I have been on the market so it has been ages since I have done anything other than note whether I find someone attractive.