I had the exact same situation with a girl, i was head over hills for her, when i decided to walk, she came back, we became friends, i let go again and this time i came back, we are together 24\7, after 7 months i walked again, she told me that i am her life and she cannot leave without me, told her i just can't, i love her too much to be a friend.

not even a month later she got a boyfriend, and besides telling me that she loves me when she was drunk, didn't contact me again.

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people, not just girls, will walk all over you if you let them, gotta stick out for yourself, this experience made me value myself more then anyone else in the world, i dont give a FUCK if its selfish, i will not allow such fuckery again on my watch.

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if im interested in you romantically i'll let you know, if you say no that's all good but do not expect me to want to stay friends with you.