I cook and clean for myself and don't want or need a gf to mother me. How's she catering? Sexually? Complying with anything I want to do, in bed or socially? Completely forgoing her needs is unhealthy and will lead to doormat treatment. But if she's a demanding high-maintenance bitch who can't put her man's needs first sometimes, that'll also get her dumped. Relationships take work from both parties (even though FDS opposes this).

The women I LTRed did have to fight a little to be picked over other women in the picture. If they weren't a little "pick me" and used FDS instead, another girl would've won. But they weren't doormats or desperate either. Other girls have thrown themselves at me desperately and it was repulsive.

But according to this sub I'm apparently "Chad" lol, maybe FDS works stringing along average guys who don't have other options.