I like how you deleted you comment or whatever but got some gist of it. For the record, I've got a few matches on tinder, and I've never said anything explicitly sexual/harassing let alone open with something like that. Because they stop replying within the first couple of messages or so.

You think I'm not being picky? OLD is brutal in that even if I were picky, swiped against those who met like the bare minimum: had a good job, cuz I sure do have a good one, and was sporting, because I do that too. Somehow that's me having too high standards, and I should relax a bit. To ones who barely have any pics of them let alone a bio. So I'm forced to, just as a lot of men to be far less picky and then that spirals down. So you see, if I don't want to be alone on a Saturday night I have to swipe right against at least half the people I see. I can't afford to be more picky.