As men, who would you personally admire and respect more; a man in a great marriage with an attractive wife, or a man who hooks up casually with lots of attractive women? Also why?

That’s tough because I understand both sides but I have to go with the casual man. Marriage is the ultimate commitment and being willing to do that is admirable but I kinda respect the casual man for going against the grain and staying true to who he is. Marriage and commitment isn’t for everybody so when someone is willing to acknowledge that and not compromise just to please someone else, I think it’s respectable. If the shoes were on the other foot, I would rather have a woman be up front that she’s only looking for something casual instead of leading me to believe their could be some form of commitment. Both are respectable in their own right though.

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