Men with daughters. What’s the one thing you worry about the most raising a daughter in today’s world?

No daughter here but if I had one sexual abuse would be my biggest fear. Seems like rape isn’t an uncommon thing nor is sexual harassment.

I remember when I was like 13 I hung out with my friend and a group of his friends. This girl wanted to hang out with them too so they said yeah.

We were walking around the mall. She was walking in front and then a few of those guys behind started just grabbing her ass repeatedly as we walked around.

My friend took it a step further and practically Cupped her vag. The whole time I’m just sitting there thinking what the fuck animals.

The girl chuckled but thinking back I can’t imagine that she found that funny or amusing. Or I could be wrong and she didn’t care. I’ll never know.

Be female

Get your pussy grabbed for wanting to hang out with guys. Seems unfair.

I remember this other time I was friends with this girl. Me and her and her bf were gonna go to this abandoned mall to walk around. I guess she felt bad about me being a third wheel so she invited this other girl to come along.

Friend and her bf went off on their own. Me and the girl went somewhere else. We came across this pitch black abandoned parking garage. She wanted to walk through it but me being a 13 year old pussy(prob still wouldn’t have done it at 24), I said hell no im not getting murdered. She said “I’ll give you a kiss if you do it”. Wasn’t even interested in her but i was like sure. Conquered fear. Got kissed. My thought was “you just met me an hour ago and you’re kissing me?” But I didn’t say that ofc.

Well fast forward. Me and the friend from story one went to a party like 7 years later and the girl who kissed me in story 2 was there. Friend and her got in the pool and she was grinding on his dick ten minutes later. I knew her for 2 hours. He knew her for ten minutes. Makes me think she also went through some form of sexual abuse or rape if she’s throwing herself at guys like that.

Or maybe I’m wrong and she just likes the attention or maybe she just had a guys mindset of “damn I wanna nut.” Good on her if that’s her choice. No judgement. I just doubt that there isn’t a history that led her to behave that way.

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