Mental arousal may be more important for women with low sexual desire, suggests a new study.

What makes a difference in my sex drive is knowing that I have a partner that will let me climax. Meaning they will put the work into it during sex for me to have an orgasm without making me feel rushed or defective for not popping off a fake one like a pornstar in 30 seconds.

How often would you be interested in sex if it consistently took you 20 minutes to climax and your partner always finished after 5?

If I know I'm just going to have to masturbate later then I start to want to avoid the sex part altogether.

My husband is great at this and he always makes sure that I climax first. We usually have sex about twice a day.

We would probably have more sex if time allowed, but usually just once in the morning before we get out of bed and again at night with a little more leisurely pace.

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