Most people discussing gender issues online tend to be batshit fucking insane and incredibly immature. On all sides. All this activism is mostly entertainment for people and all it does is polarise everyone.

I personally know super active hardcore feminists who treat women around them like shit and are basically super perverted. Some are just looking for female approval. Some are looking for female company.

A lot do activism to become the accusers rather than be the accused because you'll be put into one of those camps eventually regardless of who you are or what you do.

I also know hardcore religious dudes who know every pornstar name while preaching modesty 24/7. They'll be the first to talk about social ills but never apply it on themselves.

For the sane people, avoid hypocrites and focus on yourself. Be good because you answer for yourself and don't waste time with hyperbolic idiots.