[Meta] Am I doing something wrong here?

The Internet is a creepy place to meet people. You're doing the right thing by simply deflecting these types when you meet them. I work a job that doesn't allow me to sit down and type out leisurely chat messages on my phone, as do many others, so I'm unavailable for several hours a day.

Some people just do not have the self-esteem to be meeting women/men, and will deflect the blame and insecurity onto them.

Others are just plain nuts, and it's also not your fault. The last local guy I was looking to meet off this sub actually dug into my posts on /r/ffxiv and hunted me down in that game, then spammed me for 2-3 hours with flirty messages while I was raiding (it's like lengthy boss fights with friends).

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