[META] If you're gonna start a conversation with someone only to ghost them after you've seen how they look then stop messaging people who don't have pictures up initially.

That’s not unique to women, only the belief that you are special for experiencing it is.

Do you know, as a man, how many times I’ve had a woman ask if I was gay after rejecting her? In a public group? How many times I’ve been shown screenshots of group chats calling me ugly or a loser for not wanting to go out on a date with a friend? I’ve had girls tell new people I met horrible lies about me because I “led them on like a fuckboy” when I was just being friendly to someone?

I don’t even really care about the topic of ghosting but I’m tired of seeing “oh but men bully me when I don’t give them what I want” when I’ve lost actual friends due to turning down some half-strangers advance? All people do this, stop saying men are monsters.

/r/r4r Thread Parent