Exactly. Redditors are so detatched from reality because they all live in their insular bubbles, visiting communities where they agree with each other, upvoting one another.

My friends and I jokingly call each other "Bitch." As in, we'll say "Whats good biiiitch" but they're my best friend(s) and vice versa, so we're only teasing. None of us start going on about "Well ackshully, bitch is offensive to women so I'm not going to hang out with you anymore."

Literally no one in the real world cares about things like this, or "Ableism" or "Whataboutism" or any other Reddit-speak that ends with an -ism. And if they do they're blue checkmarks on Twitter. Now calling someone a hard R as an insult? Oh you bet, fuck them. But using slang, that the black community themselves use? Get out of here.