MIL is furious we hired a nanny

"Later on, she texted my husband asking why he didn’t discuss this with her first?! "

The audacity of this woman talking down to you and DH like you're a pair of teenagers! Your husband is giving her far too much information. Time for him to shut her down hard and put her on an information diet. He needs to tell her what goes on in your household is none of her affair, that she doesn't need to be consulted on anything and that her unsolicited opinions are unwelcome. Also a big fat NO on her contacting your parents! Warn them immediately about MIL so that they can be prepared and block her calls. You're right to be worried about what she’ll be like after the baby is born. If you think having her long nose in your business and stretching her tentacles to reach out to your parents is annoying now, just wait till baby comes! She needs to have her controlling behavior nipped now !nd have more boundaries put in place before LO arrives.

/r/JUSTNOMIL Thread