Yeah, there are some truly horrifying, sickening stories. Things that point to a rotten core of this industry that needs a deep cleaning out. There's clearly a culture that takes advantage of young women, and accepts abuse of them. There's clearly many men with deeply warped opinions on what a healthy relationship looks like, who need to be nowhere near a position of responsibility.
But as you say, some of the things that are coming out are nowhere near as severe and I don't think count as abuse (happy to be told I'm wrong if others disagree).
Whatever happens, a safe, respectful culture must be built and maintained. I genuinely don't want to go to another BritWres event until I'm a bit more confident that real change has happened. If that means removing all those names to achieve that, so be it.
But I imagine there would be an acceptable amount of common sense that would be applied for any cases that weren't abusive, but maybe the person was just a bit of a dick. These seem to be in a tiny minority, so I don't think they should take the lion's share of the focus, but they are there.