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But without a doubt the one thing I miss the most is being able to share in her orgasms. I’m addicted to how a woman’s orgasm bombards all five of my senses at once….And that “more” is my addiction.

Any chance she feels pressured to orgasm for your sake? Feeling pressure to orgasm can cause performance anxiety which often leads to decreased desire.

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The why doesn’t really matter unless it leads to change. Understanding on my part won’t magically recreate sexual desire for me within her

The why does matter, especially if it’s something your doing that’s turning her off or causing her anxiety, which she may not even consciously realize.