In a way it also did. I can say with the personality i have and who i am as whole, i wouldn't be a fit to most women in the long run and when i usually get with girls back then was just because i was lucky enough that some thought i was attractive and liked my quirks. Ive never had a relationship that lasted more than a couple of months with any of my exes. But with my girl it just works we have our differences but who she is as a person clicks. I don't believe in soul mates i think we just got really lucky we met each other and the timing was so right too. if we met at different moments in our lives it wouldn't have worked between us at all.