I miss my late wife...

This made me cry...My heart breaks for you. 31 years...I can’t imagine the bond and love you guys share. I’m not going to say I’m so sorry, because that does nothing. Just because she’s physically gone doesn’t mean that she’s gone forever. Indulge in your memories. Visit her family and listen to their stories of her before you even knew her (if she has any that you get along with), go to your guys’ favorite food spot and places you used to go together. Appreciate the time you did get with her. I know it’s so unfair...But as time goes on, the pain will ease. Visit family and friends especially. Express your sorrow and grieve, no matter how long it takes...I wish I knew you so I could give you a giant hug and be a shoulder to cry on...When you think of her, write down the thought/memory. My therapist told me to do that. It helps...You’re in my thoughts.

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