I missed the chance of kissing a girl on a date, and now I can't even watch people kissing on TV without feeling a sense of regret. How do i get over this

I actually like the play of not kissing first date.

I may be an exception from most redditors, because I consider myself good looking, but I have always made a point on first dates to not kiss a girl. Or even go in for a hug (hugs at the end of first dates are little bitch territory). What I’ll do is text her that same night to say I had a great time and would love to go out again, and usually set something up a few days later, the following morning. Doesn’t always work... I’ve had girls go in for kisses on their own at the end of a date, but if she show initiative that’s a win, too. Don’t pull away if she goes in for a hug or kiss.

Why, you ask? Because then instead of wondering if your kiss held a spark she’s wondering if something went wrong with the date and if you like her. The second date you can be absolutely sure of an awesome kiss, and it usually feels more natural, at least to me.

Besides, if she doesn’t like you as much as you like her, I’m sure she’d appreciate not having to kiss.

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