Mixed signals, I'm so confused.

So you say that the girl has been with her ex for 8 years and has just recently broken up. Normally people take a real long break but ig that isn't the case here.

I don't think she has any reason to be playing with you. If she doesn't want to be involved with you, she'd rather stop planning the dates completely.

The issue here is that she probably hasn't moved on from her ex, because duh, 8 years is a big timeframe. She probably is trying to move on, and I get the feeling that she still doesn't feel comfortable replacing her ex with you. It's also not your fault, it just happens to people.

If she does like you, it will eventually happen. She is as confused at herself as you are. Its very normal for humans, so give her time.

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