This is terrifying. PreFDS my narc ex said that “he was afraid” of when the economy tanks that he would need to move in with me. Uhhhh fuck no, I was half his age full time student part time worker barely making 10 an hour at the time. I’m not supporting a grown ass man. YOU support me! He went bat shit crazy when he did and didn’t respect ANY of my house rules. I can’t fuck with broke men anymore. All the men I’ve been dating I tell ahead of time that I am straight up looking for someone to provide for me, someone who is financially secure and stable in his life. So far it was gotten me GREAT results. The broke men stay far away from me, the ones who feel proud to do that step up to the plate and are rushing to provide to me. One man has poured out his whole feelings to me and is applying to the best schools in the nation because he wants to be in the career that can provide for me. I’m well aware of future faking though, and I don’t date potential, so I’m not taking it seriously even though I do enjoy his company but I won’t be waiting around.

Another example, my who owns several businesses boss who has admitted in secret to a friend that if he weren’t with his fiancé that he would absolutely go for me keeps finding contract work for me to do for him as well as trying everything he can to entice me to work for one of his businesses. Again, I’m financially benefiting.

If a man wants you around, he will do anything to keep you around. I have no shame in telling people I’m chasing the bag. Men have no problem asking for what they want. Why should women in their infinite power not do the same?

Fuck 50/50.