I would like to ask /u/UpsetHall - when people ask you to use their preferred pronouns, are they really asking you to accept that male people can be female, or even that male people can have an innate 'female gender identity'?

The two things are separate - one is simply using the pronouns which they request, regardless of your personal beliefs - and the other is holding a belief which would take an additional comment or conversation for you to reveal. So as long as you call the male people ''she'' they will not know what you are secretly thinking.

It's a shame the mods couldn't tolerate a discussion on this issue, it might have been interesting.