Wowww my mom does this too! She hurt her leg so I was doing some shopping for her and asked her to make me a list. She got mad and said she shouldn’t have to make me a list I should just remember what she tells me , what kind of idiot wouldn’t remember what their mom wants, I’m just not listening to her I don’t care etc etc. I finally get her to make a list but she refuses to put any specifics just ‘coffee cream’ and expects me to know the exact brand and flavor she wants and then if I get it wrong oh boy. She put ‘buns’ and I got hamburger buns, well it was hot dogs buns she wanted and she proceeded to embarrass me in front of my bf. That I’m just slow and don’t think, of course it’s hot dog buns why would she want hamburger buns. I wanted to just cry. she does it with anything she does not wanna text me or make any lists I’m just supposed to remember exactly what she wants when she wants it.