Monday PM Chat Thread

I'm not sure if I want someone to validate or talk me down from my irrational dislike of this woman. She's the wife of one of my husband's good friends, and last fall told me they'd been having trouble getting pregnant (she knew about our issues via the husbands). They'd been trying for 6 or 7 months (she's under 35), it was super hard on her, etc, etc. I talked her through some stuff, discussed options, told her some of our history (we'd been trying for 3 years at that point). Then of course she got pregnant like, the next month. And has been posting obnoxious pregnancy announcement/baby bump photos (I did unfollow her recently). And now today I got an invite to her baby shower. Augh, no. I'm not sure why exactly I feel so annoyed by this whole thing- it feels like she got me to open up about stuff and expend energy trying to help her when she wasn't even infertile? And having a taste of how hard infertility could be, she still posted those photos?

/r/infertility Thread