Are you guys… seeking out enough opportunities in venues with a sexual reputation? Like figure out your kink + get on FetLife, check out r/VirginExchange, things like that. Or prioritise intimacy and human emotional depth instead of immediate sex from a woman? I'd like to reassert that that scale is constantly changing. What constitutes a three or four? Would you be able to describe her to me or show me a picture?

I'd beg to differ. Your memes are only funny once stripped of the toxic incel despair circlejerk and released into the wild in me irl and similar self pitying meme subs. 'Humour + confidence irrelevant' despite a real life vagina owner telling you otherwise. How do you know more about my preferences than me?

I will tell you straight up. I have fucked ugly dudes. I have had sex with men I did not find physically attractive because I saw appeal in other traits within them I relieved a man nearing his fifties of his virginity. Bookmark me on this: non-physical traits matter too, no matter how much you'd like to blame your lack of success on your nose or wispy beard.

Changes aren't immediate and thus will not produce immediate results. Treat yourself better first, then treat others better, then others will treat you better. That's the general concept of karma, I think. And if you act jaded as incels broadly tend to do, people will mock you. It's the internet.