Well first it was my credit card. Figured out she was spending it on frivolous things like fast food and target when she was only supposed to use it for groceries and certain bills. Found out over the course of a couple months she spent about $479. Talked to her about it and we got over it. Then we went on vacation last week, a late honeymoon. I just got a new job and submitted my two weeks notice today. The plan was to use our savings as needed, but pretty sparingly. She even talked me into paying for another night at the beach while I knowing full well what my plan was. Come to find out, today she tells me it's all gone. She spent it all paying bills. Well, I'm going to do some investigating and find out. Fact is, if she had told me this, it wouldn't have been that big of a deal, but she let me take her on a vacation she knew we couldn't afford. This probably isn't the right sub to vent about this, but I'm beyond pissed. So when I hear about women being incapable of being selfish, I can't help but be furious.