Moronic Monday - Your weekly stupid questions thread

How do you let your SO know that you will help her lose weight without letting her get the impression that i think she is fat(she's not, i love her just the way she is. I don't want her to lose the weight for me but for herself)? She has been uncomfortable with her weight her entire life(she's not fat, just some curves)

She's had 2 kids and this summer whenever she was in the backyard in a bikini and someone would come over, she would run at max speed into the house to cover herself up since she felt fat. I think she looks great, i do not give a flying fuck and she is in no way unhealthy. But, seeing her struggle with her self image sucks. So anyone that has helped their SO/friends lose weight? I want to help her because she thinks fad diets are the only way to go and not "Burn more calories then you consume". I think if she just counted her calories a bit and cut down a little she'd drop weight in no time.

And sidenote: Me trying to hell her she looks great etc does not work. Been doing it for years and it just does not stick. I also think it triggered even more now since i lost 6 kgs of fat and have gained some muscle lifting. Question might not belong here but, fuck it.

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