Movies need to stop showing happy families living in poverty.

Well, while exterme poverty is surely bad for everything, money are no silverbulet for happy family. Depression often comes from lack of purpose and loneliness. We were poor, but I never felt alone, minisculed, my opinions were taken seriously and I always felt my mother has by back. I am over 30, childfree for life and well off now. We were happy poor family and I love my mother dearly. I just don't feel the need for kids. But in my own experience, being taken seriously, feeling that I matter, knowing that I will be supported even in things my mother disaprove - it beats any money we could had. I am not saying they would hurt, just they are not everything.

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