MRW I'm new here and I notice most of the posts are about boyfriends/husbands/SOs and I've been single for three years so I can't relate.

I mean, as a guy, I can't really blame you for not being very fond of men, but blindly hating people isn't very progressive no?

On a side note, I personally have trust issues (which is because of my autism) and the people I've always connected deepest and easiest with, are actually gay people.

Im lucky my older brother is gay, so I get lots of exposure. They're the best people to, socialize with, best sense of humor, like making life fun and beautiful,...

Heterosexual contact (men or women) often creates a bit of stress for me, because of all the things that seem to go on in the background.

And there are straight people that do know how to be friends, obviously, but seems often that there's these unwritten rules/opinions in the back of their mind, on what is normal/abnormal behavior. And I can't read those rules from their body language/facial expressions.

So the problem is kind of me, but at the same time i feel it's them because life is just easier when people simply express what you're feeling/thinking.

But we're all too busy worrying what other people would think of us, or worring how other people see us.

I think the difference lies in the fact that gay people know the importance of being 'out', in a broad sense. And I like that type of open communication.

I guess my point is maybe it's not men you hate, but people's overly complex/sometimes illogical behavior?

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