We have mutual friends, so they are not only his friends. And it’s just that is annoying, but I am ignoring it.

Never said people who fall in love In 3 months are naive. I just think that at that time it is lust and there most likely is not a strong foundation yet.

To me true comes after, that enduring love.

Everyone is different.

A lot of people fall “in love” in three months and the relationships do not last, so I dont go by that. I also do not compare relationships. So for me I don’t have this idea in my mind that I should be in love or say I love you by X time just because that is the time I fell in love with someone else. He did think this way. And apparently he falls in love in 1-3 months, yet he is 50 wants enduring love/kids/marriage has dated a lot- yet somehow cannot find the “right” woman.

and although he said he was not in love with me, throughout the relationship he would criticize me if I did not act “in love” even though I treated him rather well. Ie: Look at me this way, talk to me this way, act this way.

On our first date he assumed I did not like him because I did not say his name all night. To me I did not see an occasion to have to say his name in those few hours.