My (17 F) boyfriend (17 M) of 4 months dislikes me being in a groupchat with his (only guy) friends. (Swedish, sorry if bad english)

I'll take a shot at this.

I have some perspective, I'm also about 10 years older than you so you can take what you will from this. Some things to think about: Is this your only circle of friends that you hang out with? Do you feel you'll miss out on all the events they do if you leave it? I know a few girls who are in a bunch of random group chats, so leaving one may not be an issue for them. I also know a girl in a group chat full of boys, while she has a boyfriend, it doesn't bother him since they've been dating for almost 8 years. Do you think they'll judge your boyfriend if you decide to leave? You guys are around the age of maybe a year away from College so does it matter in the long run? (Idk how it works in Sweden for colleges since I'm from the US).

It's understandable for your boyfriend to be a little jealous of the attention you're getting from being in an all guy group chat. Does it feel like a strain in your relationship because of this group chat? If you decide to stay in it, possibly try to refrain from maybe participating for a bit until you're boyfriend is fully comfortable with his status with you. The jealousy usually stems from a little insecurity of not fully knowing his place with you. Even though you can tell him you only care about him, it may take him a while to really understand it. Your boyfriend sounds understanding and doesn't want to force you out, but it's ultimately up to you if you want to leave the chat. If you do decide to leave, you don't owe anyone an explanation why. If the guys end up getting mad at your boyfriend, that's their own personal problem, but your focus should be you and your relationship. Do what you feel seems right. You can't go wrong either way.

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