My(17f) family has been ruining my life

Wow, that’s some victim mentality. It’s called parenting. Don’t be a snowflake man. As a kid I got beaten up for doing wrong things too. It’s supposed to teach you a lesson to not repeat it. But guess you are taking different lessons.

Also, your brother tells your story of peeing your pants when you were a kid? Welcome to the real normal world, your sibling is level 2 asshole. Most siblings are much bigger assholes. For example, my elder sister would make me do her petty chores in the pretext of us playing games, and to this day, hits me on my head if I am sitting doing nothing minding my own business. Siblings are like that. I also annoy her. That’s why siblings are so special. They are the worst but you know they love you more than anyone.

Thirdly, when your dad says he didn’t beat you and you lost tooth, maybe it’s because that never happened, and he isn’t denying it. A 4 year old’s brain isn’t really great at retaining memory, and over the years the memory gets cemented when actually it was something else. I swear I saw an owl breathing fire at my dad’s factory(it was a new office and we were sleeping at the day of the inauguration). Through the window I saw an owl breathe fire. I was utterly convinced I saw what had happened until I was 20 and was helping dad in the office. I found out the day we started new operations, a fire broke out in one of the components. I asked dad he said yes that’s really old, we got insurance claim for that. Upon digging through my office records I found the mail sent for insurance claim. It had a cctv video of a broken pipe spewing fire. I saw the location, went back to where I rememebr I had slept as a child, corresponded to the window’s view and there it was, the place where old pipe would have been, spitting fire. Point is, you can’t really depend upon memories of a kid, specially a few decades old one.

Lastly, you were suicidal at 8? How much of a victim persona do you have dude? You basically look for any and every way to victimise yourself. You should be glad I’m not your family. I wouldn’t treat you with the patience they have shown.

/r/Vent Thread