My [19F] Dad [45 M] is supposedly getting married in about a week to his girlfriend [49? F] and hasn't told me?

Yeah, you're right. I guess he is tired of hearing it. Even though at the age of 14 I was his main support through my parent's divorce and he would constantly tell me that he regrets ever having had me because of my 'bitch of a mother' leaving him 'only because' he would beat her when he was drunk and constantly tell her she was worth jack shit to him. Or maybe it was when I was 13 and told him I was suicidal because my older brother was beating the shit out of me for 'fun' and trying to kill me because he was 'bored' and would leave me covered in bruises and once let his friends hold me down when I was 6 and practice 'having sex' with me, his only response being "Get over it. It's just a phase. Focus on helping your mom through this divorce because she needs support." And you're right! I don't have to disown him like I did the rest of my family, such as my cousin who threw fire-crackers at my dog until she was forced to jump off the balcony and was hung by her metal chain off of the 2nd story! Or my aunt who forced me to drink alcohol at the age of 4 because it was 'funny'. Or my cousins who shunned me because they were jealous that my parents were still together and would punish me for no reason other than I was 'there' all the while calling me scar-face for the rest of my childhood after I was attacked by a dog. Yes. My thoughts and feelings are completely irrelevant in this case. Thank you. I'm enlightened now, more so than I was before when I took into account that I worked my ass off to try and get my dad to stop being depressed at the cost of my childhood. I guess it was my fault for thinking that my feelings would actually matter to my father. I should of been more considerate.

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