My (20M) FWB (26F) got pregnant. Kinda freaking out.

Absolutely you SHOULD bring it up, and hopefully will, but I wouldn’t concern myself with that until it’s born (as in concern myself with this randomly stated opinion). I also would distance myself from this situation as much as you can for the time being. I am a woman and I can respect, appreciate, and understand both sides... but this is something I wouldn’t give a second thought to (easier said than done obviously) until it is born. Distance yourself but be there at the birth and then at some point shortly after you can get a paternity test and decide what’s going on and all of the facts.

I recommend not doing it until the child is born bc what if by some shitty universal fate (not in a mean way I know its a fucked up way of saying but I mean this in fairness to you) that if by the off chance it’s yours, then you wouldn’t have missed the birth. But also fully up to you absolutely and I would understand and respect any decisions on your part of this duration for the most part.

Just be careful and don’t allow yourself to get taken advantage of. Not saying that that’s what anyone is trying to/will/plans to do but it never ever hurts to be precautious. Just keep your guard up and take some time to let your mind and heart debate over it. Something will come to you. Much peace and love♥️

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