That's a loaded question. Why would I hang out with anybody if I have my wife at home? I had a friend from middle school, we were the weird poor kids at the time and naturally gravitated towards each other and became friends for years. When she moved back to our hometown she didn't have a place to stay and moved into our extra downstairs room. It was me, my wife, our son, and my friend Mary downstairs all in the same house. We all hung out, sometimes all together, sometimes separately. 6 months later she found her own place and moved out. I never even thought about it until I started reading this sub. Just seemed normal that one of my best friends was female.