My (22m) gf (20f) is obsessed with wanting to have a baby. How to stop it or at least help her be patient?

We've been together about a year. I don't let her access the condoms, I don't think she knows where I have them but even if she does they're not where she would be alone with them for enough time to do anything. I don't know if I'm being overly paranoid several months ago she actually had a positive test and she's supposedly been on the pill the whole time so that made me start using condoms as well. She had her period or something (bleeding) right after so I'm not worried she's still pregnant but that was a wake up call for me.

My family is well off. I don't personally have any more money than your average university student but if she had my kid she wouldn't have to worry about money but regardless I DON'T WANT THAT, not right now at least. I just don't want a kid, I'm happy having my freedom and I've seen what it's like from my older sister and her kid, it's hard as fuck and not fun lol. When I'm older I'll think about it.

My girl's family aren't skint or anything, she's not a gold digger but they're a bit dysfunctional and I think she likes my family and wants to remain in it. I know she loves me as well but she gets on great with my sister and my mother is a very accepting sort so I think part of it is just wanting a nice family of her own with me. I don't intend to break up with her but she's always insecure that I might.

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