My[22m] girlfriend's[20f] libido death preoccupies me.

My advice for dealing with the emotional impact? Actively choose to accept your lot in life, stop hoping for change, and find a hobby.

This isn't a temporary setback, this is your guys' normal. Unless something really, really f'ed up happened with your experimenting (like some serious kink that spooked her), she wouldn't have cut things off unless she just isn't that into it.

You can't hope and you can't worry about how your needs aren't getting met.

Choose your relationship over your needs and start woodworking. Knitting. Bulking up at the gym. Long distance running.

That's what people in these situations do. You should start a hobby, and use it to keep yourself busy during these long dry spells.

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