My(23) girlfriend (21) is having loads of health problems and I believe it’s due to her weight but I don’t want to be “that guy” (6 months)

It is the incapacity to comprehend since you immediately jumped down my throat for saying it’s lovely that he’s concerned for her health and attempted to see malicious intent behind what he said. We can disagree. I don’t see any malicious intent behind what he wrote, maybe there is and maybe there isn’t. Either way, weight gain is directly and indirectly linked to a lot of medical issues, and guaranteed this may not be the direct factor of cause, weight is almost always a secondary indirect factor. I say this as someone who’s heavy themselves and often am told so. Doesn’t make my opinion more valid than yours, but I do disagree with you. Let’s keep it at that.

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