3. My (23F) boyfriend (23M) subscribed to a girl he knows OnlyFans account

My (23F) boyfriend (23M) subscribed to a girl he knows OnlyFans account

I hate to say this but you shouldn't think just because he has you he shouldnt watch porn. People like porn and honestly people in relationships still use it ive never thought of that as an issue. Please talk with him about how porn makes you feel insecure sometimes all you need is reassurance that you're his one and only and ask him what he finds attractive about you since maybe youre feeling inadequate compared to their pornstar physiques Now let me rip into your boyfriend.... why in the name of god would a reasonably minded person subscribe to watch porn of someone they know in real life when theres literally MILLIONS of porn to choose from, im talking MILLIONS OF FREE PORN. And most people watching free stuff on pornhub so the fact that he is not only watching someone he knows but paying to watch crosses a line i cannot describe. Because i hate to say it but those sexual feelings do not go away when hes around her. Porn stays on screens and is part of the fantasy world (hopefully) but this is reality and he even lied to you because he knew it was wrong. Yeah he might unsubscribe from the onlyfans girl. But that doesnt change the fact that he did this in the first place. How long did he know her? What does she look like? How dies he act around her? Cuz the normal response to finding a friend in porn is to prevent yourself from ever seeing it again I feel like this relationship can be salvageable but hes really gotta respect your feelings that he currently seems dismissive of. But do you really know him? Perhaps its where i grew up but lots of women kniw what kind of porn their SO watches its not a secret and it shouldn't be. Ask him to be honest with you about what he likes and decide how much it bothers you. Ps you can end a relationship for any reason even for small ones like the way he drinks water. If youre unhappy dont stay when no one is forcing you to stay because you think youve wasted a 5 year investment. But for now let yourself be angry and hurt theyre valid feelings in response to shock but do not let him dismiss your feelings!!@

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