Damn maybe meet with a relationship therapist on your own. Try and figure out the best way to approach this with him.

From my young, inexperienced and idealistic opinion, marriage isn’t just about the happiness that can be created from the union of the two of you. Its necessary to make each other happy. And if his habits keep up, it seems u will just he entering into a life of stubbornness and sadness as you watch themselves eat themselves into an unhealthy way of being

Someone in my immediate family used to tend to overeat and refuse diets, due to the excessive recommendations and sometimes judgments from my mother. They won’t change, as far as we can tell. And now, after so many times trying, we don’t expect them to.