My(24M) fiancee (24F) just told me she had sex with someone else right before our first date

respectfully, grow up. you are not in an exclusive relationship because you agree to go on a date. thats absolutely ridiculous. with that said, its valid for you to feel uncomfortable about the fact that she had sex with some guy right before your first date, but just because you feel weird about it doesnt mean it was actually wrong of her to do, especially seeing as it is completely normal for her to assume that you werr NOT in a monogamous relationship just because she asked you out. if you wanted to stop dating other people immediately when she asked you out thats fine, some people prefer to only date one person at a time, but that only has to do with you. thats a choice you made for yourself, and it doesnt give you the right to expect the same of her if it was not discussed between the two of you.

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