My (25F) husband (27M) wants a paternity test on our son

I have that with rare people. I'd have it with my boyfriend if we lived in the same country, but mainly I just have it shared with my two best friends. It was kinda weird at first, she was the one that just shared it with me so I did it back because she's basically my little sister.

As for using the other's phones I think there just needs to be mutual respect. I had to give up remote computer control to my bf at one point (trying to dodge server queues for a game). He had no issues but I was apprehensive because I'm private and while I tell him almost everything...it's still not everything. Ultimately though, we trust each other to not invade privacy even with the ability to do so, and imo that's the difference. The difference is also I was able to tell him about my anxiety about it and he wasn't defensive or anything so it was all good.

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