My (25M) GF (21F) wants to try swinging

Um, id rehash this conversation. Swinging would have no effect or change to how long you can last during penetrative sex. As long as you aren't shy so definitely not a solution of any kind. But if she wanted to try swinging because it's a fantasy or kink of hers then that's something too but i think it's time you and her just sit down and figure this out.

No shame in wanting to explore that, hell shes barely old enough to go to the bar (usa) and being 21 she doesnt know shit about fuck when it comes to committed long term relationships and you might not either, idk. But you need to impress upon her that swinging wouldn't be any kind of solution for your ability to "last" and could likely result in a full breakup unless you are both 100% eager to try together and only as a one time thing to try, you may also want to suggest if you do it that you likely wont last long either with the swapped female and her swapped male partner may not last either. So her argument is riddled with flaws. But again maybe shes just frustrated and that might be a fantasy of hers.

Now moving on to the major issue at hand. You dont last. Yall are wearing condoms so have you tried desensitizing condoms? How about double bagging? Are you circumcized? - if not then getting circumcized would likely solve this issue. Albeit extreme.

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