My (26F) boyfriend (28M) hates the fact that I’m seeking help for my depression.

My SO regularly sees a therapist for her anxiety issues. The therapy gives her support in ways that I can't. I know for a fact she talks about me with her therapist and there is no issue because I want to know if I'm messing up and want to know what I can do differently to help her as well.

I regularly drink and/or smoke pot after work without issue.

This guy sounds like a piece of shit who wants to drag you down with him. Does he take any steps to try and support you when you let him know you're feeling depressed or does he just further contribute to it? Without knowing better I think cutting the toxic alcoholic out of your life might be a good step.

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