Kinda seems like you opened up the relationship to sleep with other people. But I'm guessing you just assumed he wouldn't be able to find anyone and you could sleep around. Then when your husband actually found someone you realized you only wanted a one way open relationship for you. I imagine everything you're going through your husband would've gone throuhh had you slept with someone else first. I'm sure your husband feels like he's not enough for you. Why would you need to sleep with other people if he were. Opening up the relationship told him he wasn't a priority to you. And now he's not treating you like one. Also your excuse of being an hour late is totally bs. Like you have an open relationship and you're mad he's an hour late. I call bullshit. You want your cake and eat it too. Doesn't work like that.