My [26m] girlfriend [24f] is 'hurt' because I won't go to her parents this weekend

This mostly represents how I feel. I have actually asked to meet her parents many times, its been a few months at least, to do something easy like dinner, whenever they're in the city. She agreed, but it never happened, even though I knew they were visiting and going for dinner - she would snap chat me it. I just never pushed the issue because despite what she says, if she wasn't ready, that's fine.

Now she's ready, and wants me to go to their place for the day and night, but said she doesn't want me to feel like I have to. So I just said I would think about it, but I'm leaning towards just staying in the city. As other's pointed out, this probably wasn't the best response, but it was me just trying to casually say "thanks, but I'm not comfortable with that quite yet". She definitely misinterpreted it, and sent me a bunch of texts saying she's "very hurt I can't take a day to meet her family". That admittedly annoyed me a bit, because I do and have made time to meet her friends and parts of her family (not immediate).

And that's where were at, I just suggested we talk about it tomorrow (today) because it was getting late, and we obviously were both a bit annoyed.

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