My [27f] bf[29M] is mad at me for getting plastic surgery done before I met him and is asking for "space"

It's ironic that you think he's shallow when in fact, you're the one that thought plastic surgery was necessary and assumed that it's not the fact that you left a major detail out when telling him about yourself, but that its the plastic surgery that you're mad about.

Perhaps his recent need for space is because he is now discovering that you are more shallow than he initially would be interested in.

I see a lot of comments here calling you out on the same hypocrisy, but what i don't see is them being as disgusted as I am.

It's absolutely a double standard of sexism to ignore your own shallow tendencies and blame him for this. You're sexist, shallow, and I'd rethink a relationship after that crap too. Shame on you.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Let him go find someone who doesn't leave out significant details.

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