My (28F) Boyfriend (26M) fapped to his ex after I asked him to come to bed.

Okay not going to lie I laughed out loud at the title. But go onnn..

I have no issue with porn as long as it is not to exes or Facebook people we know ect and he knows this.

Ohh.. so this has happened before I guess?

He knew how I felt about jerking it to real people, let alone his ex..

I mean yeah that's a no brainer, that is.

Is this something normal?

Ummmmmm no. Nope.

It sorta seems like he knew what he was doing and he doesn't care. Its basically cheating if hes having 'chats' with her and then jerking it. I mean let me put it this way: would he be cool if you did the same thing? No? So he knows what hes doing and he hopes you'll dump him? Yeah.