My (28F) boyfriend (28M) of six months is mind-numbingly boring. He has no opinion to contribute towards anything. He is a good human being and all but how do I help him be more participative in a conversation?

I’m very extraverted and I never shut up, so I think you’re the one reading into things that aren’t there. My entire issue is with something she specifically stated in the post title. I’m not reading into it, nor assigning her any malicious intent; I am saying, as clearly as I can, that you shouldn’t be with someone you think of as mind-numbingly boring, nor someone who you are actively trying to change to better suit you, because that is toxic. Seeing as she is with someone she thinks is mind-numbingly boring, she needs to do some soul searching so she can grow into someone who doesn’t date people to mould them to her vision of what they should be.

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