My(28m) wife(30) has been using an alternate Reddit account to post nudes of herself.?

That’s fine if you both agree to those boundaries. Not every woman is okay with porn and that’s fine too.

I would never post nudes of myself but if I worked out and had a body I wanted to show off I certainly would post pictures in bikinis or clothes that I find flattering and would expect my partner to be okay with it.

Personally, I’m not a fan of porn but as long as it isn’t extreme or excessive I would allow it. I draw the line at paying for porn and interacting and also subscribing to an OF of someone he knows personally/IRL. I wouldn’t allow nudes or porn videos of any exes either.

Everyone has different boundaries and they need to be established beforehand.

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