My [29F] BF [34M] requires me to start making significantly more money

having similar views on almost everything,

Except, of course, on

  • whether grown adults are supposed to clean up after themselves

  • whether the comfort and happiness of anyone other than himself matters at all

  • whether it's more important to have a healthy relationship with a partner you love than to meet arbitrary income targets

  • whether it's okay to constantly rudely criticize your partner as though they're an underperforming employee and constantly threaten to leave them if they don't shape up

  • whether how much money your unmarried partner makes should matter beyond their ability to contribute a fair share to the household budget

Like, I'm hearing that you disagree on a lot, actually.

/r/relationships Thread